Danielle’s Life List

This is a woman with a dream.

Her name is Danielle, and she’ll be one of the attendees for this year’s Mighty Summit. I first met her last week in New York, but perhaps you remember her from her community keynote at Blogher ’09. It began,”There’s something stuck in my vagina. Day One.”

Number 55 on Danielle’s Life List reads, “Have a photo session in Times Square (KISS makeup)?”

I love how she phrased it furtively, because when I wandered into the bathroom to find her, Antonia, and Krystyn applying KISS makeup with Zan madly snapping photos, there was nothing halfway about it.

Had I arrived thirty seconds later, I could have easily missed a deathbed-flashback evening, and the thought made me slightly panicked. I yelled, “Why did no one come get me?” And Danielle silently passed me the pancake makeup.


Photo by Zan McQuade.

We headed over to Times Square on foot, stopping periodically to provoke security guards.

And make new friends.

And then we were there.

Posing like the Broadway show posters — laughing, occasionally embarrassed, not nearly drunk enough.

But these are my people, and I found them on the Internet.

This night was the best example of how making a life list has drawn great people my way. Chasing my goals is fun, but now I’m living dreams that are so much more imaginative and crazy and happy than I could have come up with on my own.

Danielle, my sweet?

I’m keeping you in my pocket.

The rest of my photos are here, but Zan’s are better.

Retroactive Friday Mixtape!

I’ve always wished I knew more about music, and this is part of my Life List project to listen to 1,000 new songs. Right now I’m up to 422, and on Fridays I share some of my new favorites. If you’d like to share some music with me, please send your picks to maggie at mighty girl dot com, and I will listen to them.

Sorry for the delay, guys. New York kicked my bum.


“Rhythm of Love” by Plain White T’s
Via Theresa Hannah


“I don’t know” by Lisa Hannigan
Via Theresa Hannah


“There is a Light (but it’s not for everyone)” by Rae Spoon
Via Courtney Walker


“You Turned my Head Around” by Dean & Britta
Via Laura Ingram

Still looking for more music? Here you go: Mixtape 1, Mixtape 2, Mixtape 3, Mixtape 4, Mixtape 5, Mixtape 6, Mixtape 7, Mixtape 8, Mixtape 9, Mixtape 10, Mixtape 11, Mixtape 12, Mixtape 13, Mixtape 14, Mixtape 15

San Francisco 7×7 Big Eat Map

Finishing the San Francisco Big Eat is on my Mighty Life List, but it’s been a pain not knowing which restaurants are close to me when I’m out. So we made a Google map of where everything is. If you’re coming to town, keep a copy in your pocket and your experience will be more delicious for it.
View The 2010 Big Eat SF Locations in a larger map

I’ve tasted 34 out of 100 so far. If you’d like to try everything too, there’s a good Big Eat Facebook ap that lets you check things off as you go along.

Friday Mixtape!

I’ve always wished I knew more about music, and this is part of my Life List project to listen to 1,000 new songs. Right now I’m up to 400, and on Fridays I share some of my new favorites. If you’d like to share some music with me, please send your picks to maggie at mighty girl dot com, and I will listen to them.


“Samson” by Regina Spector
Via Kat Sanford


“Le Moulin” by Yann Tiersen
Via Kat Sanford


“Cigarettes and Chocolate Milk” by Rufus Wainwright
Via Kat Sanford


“Hand Me Down” by Visqueen

Still looking for more music? Here you go: Mixtape 1, Mixtape 2, Mixtape 3, Mixtape 4, Mixtape 5, Mixtape 6, Mixtape 7, Mixtape 8, Mixtape 9, Mixtape 10, Mixtape 11, Mixtape 12, Mixtape 13, Mixtape 14

Friday Mixtape!

I’ve always wished I knew more about music, and this is part of my Life List project to listen to 1,000 new songs. Right now I’m up to 382, and on Fridays I share some of my new favorites. If you’d like to share some music with me, please send your picks to maggie at mighty girl dot com, and I will listen to them.


“So Bad” by Arum Rae
via reader Megan Renart


“Air Plane” by Local Natives
via the extraordinary Paige Thomas


“You and I” by Ingrid Michaelson
via Heather Barmore


“In My Cup” by Richie Loops
I don’t need you to agree with me on this one, but I can’t deny how I feel.

Still looking for more music? Here you go: Mixtape 1, Mixtape 2, Mixtape 3, Mixtape 4, Mixtape 5, Mixtape 6, Mixtape 7, Mixtape 8, Mixtape 9, Mixtape 10, Mixtape 11, Mixtape 12, Mixtape 13