The wilting roses look like they’re laughing.
Conversations with a Six-Year-Old, Re: Productivity
Put This in Your Ears: “You Can Be All Kinds of Emotional,” The Lone Bellow
You Can Be All Kinds of Emotional on Spotify
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I’m posting a new song every day this year. Full playlist for each month is on my Spotify. Suggestions welcome in comments.
Thank a Writer Project: News! Excerpts! Winner!
This month Nathan Bransford and I kicked off Go Mighty’s Thank a Writer Project by writing thank you notes to our favorite authors. You can join in at any time by adding “Thank my favorite authors” to your Go Mighty Life List, and tagging your letters with “thankawriter.”
My first note of this project was to author Thomas Lynch. The other day, a package arrived in the mail, containing a few books. They were all by Lynch, and I didn’t remember ordering them. At first I was perplexed, and then as I read the byline on each book, my heartbeat quickened. I looked at the envelope’s return address. Above the address, the name “Lynch.”
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Put This in Your Ears: “Playing for Keeps,” Elle King
Playing for Keeps on Spotify
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Photo by Dustin Cohen
I’m posting a new song every day this year. Full playlist for each month is on my Spotify. Suggestions welcome in comments.
Life List Inspiration from Go Mighty
Congrats to Sarah Hassell, winner of our $1,000 grant from last month’s Go Mighty Skillshare Class! She has a new heart and an ambitious goal for it. Go have a look.
Speaking of our Skillshare class series, if starting a business is on your Life List, consider taking Andie Powers’s Go Mighty Skillshare Class From Scratch to Success, Starting Your Own Creative Small Business.
There are some great stories on Go Mighty this week:
– Bonnie Chan just started chipping away at a a cool project.
– Helena Price is doing the scary thing. (Fingers crossed for you, sis.)
– MacKensie Cornelius has a travel tip that never occurred to me before.
– Melena Kathryn’s story about music reminded me of the weeks I spent in a dance studio in Buenos Aires, hoping to bring tango home as a souvenir.
Go Mighty is still in beta, but we’re processing invitations within about 24 hours now, so come add your Life List and tell us where you’re turning your attention lately.
Vocab List: Numpty
I like this word. It feels good in my mouth.
Numpty. Numptynumptynumpty.
Outdoor Movie Party in 5 Simple Steps
This post is brought to you by The New Santa Fe from Hyundai.
Eating, napping, making out — everything is better outside. That’s why we invented picnics, and hammocks, and drive-in movie theaters. Now drive-ins are about as common as rotary phones, but that doesn’t lessen my urge to watch movies with a cricket soundtrack.
I mentioned that we threw a movie night in my sister’s barn for Hank’s birthday, and here’s what I learned about organizing a backyard movie party.

We used a laptop to the play the movie. In keeping with the farm theme, we trained a chicken to press play. I believe in going the extra mile.
1. SET UP YOUR THEATER
Choose a location with low light, so the projection is visible. You need four things to screen a movie outside:
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Screen or large white wall
DVD player or laptop
Projector
Speakers

Save some cash by borrowing a projector.
You can go cheap or elaborate here, but you can borrow, rent, or buy any of these components. Offices or schools tend to have projectors for presentations and portable screens — so ask around. Renting a projector will run you $75 to $100, less in urban areas where you can pick it up yourself, or you can rent online and have it shipped (atsrentals.com). Wired has a good step-by-step for how to put it all together.

You can also often borrow a collapsable movie screen, but there are lots of DIY options.
If you’re feeling DIY, you can make or improvise a reusable screen. Here’s a tutorial for making a screen out of two queen-sized sheets, a more solid portable outdoor movie screen, and a few more DIY screen options like a simple painted wall, screen paint, background paper, or blackout cloth.
2. CHOOSE A MOVIE
Movie parties tend to run long. You need a little time for everyone to socialize, grab some food and get seated, so be mindful of timing when you choose your feature presentation. If there will be lots of kids, consider screening a couple of TV shows or some classic cartoons so you can better control duration and be mindful of bedtime meltdowns. No matter what, you’ll want something with wide appeal. We screened Babe because we wanted to keep with the farm theme, but here are a few of my favorites:
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Rushmore
Sound of Music
Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
Goonies
Star Wars
Toy Story
ET
Breakfast Club
Clueless
The Big Lebowski
Grease
There’s a more comprehensive list of family friendly movies here.
You can set up a theme around your movie, have everyone dress for a ’50s drive in if you’re showing Grease, have toy light-sabers for the kids if you’re showing Star Wars, or do a movie series of Best-Picture Oscars. It all depends on your stamina, be mindful of timing before you get too elaborate.
3. INVITE MOVIE GOERS
In your invitation, consider asking guests to bring lawn chairs, blankets or sleeping bags, and flashlights so they can get to and from their seats in the dark. A few invitation options:
Admit One Paper Invitations from Unique Invites
Printable Movie Night Invitations from Oh Happy Day
Electronic Invitations from Paperless Post

We sat on bales of hay, but in retrospect I’d do lawn chairs or organize the bales so there was a place to lean back. See how hunchy we are?
4. GET COMFORTABLE
Nothing kills a party faster than physical discomfort. Make sure there are blankets if your area gets cold at night, bug spray and citronella candles if you have pest issues, and especially comfortable places to sit. I used bales of hay for the barn screening, but I think folks are more comfortable in chairs with backs. Again, encourage guests to bring their own if you don’t have enough to go around. You can also try picnic blankets, sleeping bags, or yoga mats, but you’ll also want pillows in that case so people can lie down and prop their heads to see the screen.

Renting a for-realsy popcorn machine was so worth it. Going to get free popcorn felt so illicit.
5. STOCK UP ON CONCESSIONS
We went simple with popcorn and sodas, but Oh Happy Day has some crazy-adorable options if you want to get into styling your movie snacks. We rented a popcorn machine, which felt so fancy and runs from $50 to $75. You can purchase a smaller popcorn machine for about that price. Alternately, you can set out a big bowl of popcorn or pass around popcorn in paper bags.

It was not lost on our vegetarian guest that we were eating pork just before watching Babe. I am not going to heaven. Which is too bad, because it seems like they’d have bacon there.
It’s a nice treat to have traditional movie candies on hand (Junior Mints, Rasinettes, Twizzlers), and perhaps hot dogs if you want to provide a meal. We roasted ours over a fire before the show. You can offer lemonade or soda, beer or sangria for the grownups. Because we screened during colder weather, we set out a crock pot with cider and had rum on hand for those who wanted to spike.
And there you go. So much fun.
Of course, if you’re exhausted just reading that, consider pushing the couch out back, popping a bowl of popcorn, and setting your laptop on a table with some portable speakers. I’ll pick up some Cokes, Junior Mints, and a Heathers DVD. Meet you out back in an hour.
If you’d like to see how our movie night in a my sister’s barn came off, here’s a little day-in-the-life movie Hyundai made about us… watching a movie. Meta.
http://thirdparty.fmpub.net/placement/553818?fleur_de_sel=%5BRANDOM%5D
Put This in Your Ears: “Lookout,” Homeboy Sandman

Lookout on Spotify
I’m posting a new song every day this year. Full playlist for each month is on my Spotify. Suggestions welcome in comments.









