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	<title>Comments on: What We Chase</title>
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		<title>By: LovelyMonsters</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1250095</link>
		<dc:creator>LovelyMonsters</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 08:32:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a habit of shying from questions I won&#039;t like the answers to. When my mind veered away from this one, I knew it was time to dig.

The answer is, resoundingly, no. In both directions, strangely: I have too many possessions (an American, I am whittling everything down to two suitcases in order to move to England) and too little permission to take the time and effort to create art. Too much obsession over my acne, too few pairs of pants.

How interesting. I get the impression that the expectation of the quote&#039;s author is that the answer will be yes, but this is helpful for a different reason: lately I have been asking myself what I want, and the answers have been hard to narrow down. It&#039;s a bit easier to cope with asking &quot;What do I want more of? What do I want less of?&quot; 

Which is, I imagine, not what the author intended. But too bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a habit of shying from questions I won&#8217;t like the answers to. When my mind veered away from this one, I knew it was time to dig.</p>
<p>The answer is, resoundingly, no. In both directions, strangely: I have too many possessions (an American, I am whittling everything down to two suitcases in order to move to England) and too little permission to take the time and effort to create art. Too much obsession over my acne, too few pairs of pants.</p>
<p>How interesting. I get the impression that the expectation of the quote&#8217;s author is that the answer will be yes, but this is helpful for a different reason: lately I have been asking myself what I want, and the answers have been hard to narrow down. It&#8217;s a bit easier to cope with asking &#8220;What do I want more of? What do I want less of?&#8221; </p>
<p>Which is, I imagine, not what the author intended. But too bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1249816</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 02:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand the concept. Chasing &quot;all&quot; and never being satisfied with what you have is unhealthy and would make any life miserable. However, settling for &quot;enough&quot; doesn&#039;t strike me as something that would make me happy either. I prefer to hope for a balance between the two extremes: Being grateful and realizing that life is good, while still striving for more. To me, that would be ideal and is what I try to remember anytime something great (or bad) happens. A little reminder that what you have is amazing and you are lucky, but the realization that there is always room for improvement. Balance is key.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand the concept. Chasing &#8220;all&#8221; and never being satisfied with what you have is unhealthy and would make any life miserable. However, settling for &#8220;enough&#8221; doesn&#8217;t strike me as something that would make me happy either. I prefer to hope for a balance between the two extremes: Being grateful and realizing that life is good, while still striving for more. To me, that would be ideal and is what I try to remember anytime something great (or bad) happens. A little reminder that what you have is amazing and you are lucky, but the realization that there is always room for improvement. Balance is key.</p>
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		<title>By: Kara</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1249577</link>
		<dc:creator>Kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2012 13:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have never liked the &quot;having it all&quot; thing for women because first it makes certain assumptions about what &quot;all&quot; is (fancy house, lots of gadgets, high-powered career, marriage, 2.5 kids...) and second that everyone wants the same &quot;all&quot;.

I personally have never felt the need to join that particular race because I have never wanted it &quot;all&quot;.

I prefer to have &quot;enough&quot;.  

Competition in chasing that elusive &quot;all&quot; never made anyone happy that I could ever see...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have never liked the &#8220;having it all&#8221; thing for women because first it makes certain assumptions about what &#8220;all&#8221; is (fancy house, lots of gadgets, high-powered career, marriage, 2.5 kids&#8230;) and second that everyone wants the same &#8220;all&#8221;.</p>
<p>I personally have never felt the need to join that particular race because I have never wanted it &#8220;all&#8221;.</p>
<p>I prefer to have &#8220;enough&#8221;.  </p>
<p>Competition in chasing that elusive &#8220;all&#8221; never made anyone happy that I could ever see&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1249038</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Aug 2012 13:58:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing this article - a reminder that gratitude is a gift we give ourselves!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing this article &#8211; a reminder that gratitude is a gift we give ourselves!</p>
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		<title>By: Kris</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1248914</link>
		<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 21:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angeerah, your son will be okay.  There is a whole world out here, waiting to embrace him with love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angeerah, your son will be okay.  There is a whole world out here, waiting to embrace him with love.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1248911</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 19:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This article is wonderful, isn&#039;t it? I had always been a really competitive person, but that changed when my daughter was stillborn last year. I&#039;m not sure whom I thought I was competing with, but clearly I lost.

Now I&#039;m more grateful for what I have. And I&#039;ve noticed that people who have dealt with some major hardship in their lives are often happier than those who haven&#039;t. I guess we might call that wisdom.

&lt;strong&gt;I&#039;m so sorry about your child.

I agree with you. People who have faced a Big Bad sometimes do seem better able to cope with or find humor in small hardships.  -M&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article is wonderful, isn&#8217;t it? I had always been a really competitive person, but that changed when my daughter was stillborn last year. I&#8217;m not sure whom I thought I was competing with, but clearly I lost.</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m more grateful for what I have. And I&#8217;ve noticed that people who have dealt with some major hardship in their lives are often happier than those who haven&#8217;t. I guess we might call that wisdom.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;m so sorry about your child.</p>
<p>I agree with you. People who have faced a Big Bad sometimes do seem better able to cope with or find humor in small hardships.  -M</strong></p>
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		<title>By: jenny</title>
		<link>http://mightygirl.com/2012/08/10/what-we-chase/#comment-1248907</link>
		<dc:creator>jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 18:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I find that each time I ask myself this question, the answer is a resounding &quot;Yes.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I find that each time I ask myself this question, the answer is a resounding &#8220;Yes.&#8221;</p>
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