Comments on: 7 Skills Every Woman Should Master http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/ Famous Among Dozens Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:28:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: tgcali http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-708964 tgcali Sat, 21 Jun 2008 04:44:11 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-708964 Something that touches on #5 (thinking of that as a code word will drive me into fits of giggles for a long time to come) that hasn't been mentioned here are those of us who were subjected to sexual molestation at a very young age. In my case I was six and it was oral. As a result, obviously, I spent many years being unable to tolerate oral sex whether it was given or received. Thankfully, I don't feel that way anymore because it sure is fun. May I just say, as is true with ANY sexual act, if it is not completely comfortable for BOTH partners, it is not acceptable. Period. (and if you're feeling obligated you are NOT feeling completely comfortable) Having said all that, I have never found the act to be degrading. Why is it supposed to be? Something that touches on #5 (thinking of that as a code word will drive me into fits of giggles for a long time to come) that hasn’t been mentioned here are those of us who were subjected to sexual molestation at a very young age. In my case I was six and it was oral.

As a result, obviously, I spent many years being unable to tolerate oral sex whether it was given or received. Thankfully, I don’t feel that way anymore because it sure is fun.

May I just say, as is true with ANY sexual act, if it is not completely comfortable for BOTH partners, it is not acceptable. Period. (and if you’re feeling obligated you are NOT feeling completely comfortable)

Having said all that, I have never found the act to be degrading. Why is it supposed to be?

]]> By: Felacio the Blowjob http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-670748 Felacio the Blowjob Wed, 28 May 2008 02:31:26 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-670748 #96: Hip? No. A Classic. Will never go out of style as long as men have dicks. And women have mouths. #96: Hip? No. A Classic. Will never go out of style as long as men have dicks. And women have mouths.

]]> By: Andra http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-669175 Andra Mon, 26 May 2008 19:59:48 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-669175 @#96 by the time Hank gets around to reading this particular entry, I bet he'll know exactly what a blowjob is. Lighten up. @#96 by the time Hank gets around to reading this particular entry, I bet he’ll know exactly what a blowjob is. Lighten up.

]]> By: Zezelia http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-664084 Zezelia Wed, 21 May 2008 15:09:30 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-664084 You need one more! Except it's something everyone should master regardless of which genitalia you are attached to. How to give an apology... a good one... especially in those instances when you've accidentally hurt someone or something... I'm thinking of my boyfriend's mother in particular when I write this... *wink* You need one more! Except it’s something everyone should master regardless of which genitalia you are attached to. How to give an apology… a good one… especially in those instances when you’ve accidentally hurt someone or something… I’m thinking of my boyfriend’s mother in particular when I write this… *wink*

]]> By: Nancy http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-659914 Nancy Sat, 17 May 2008 02:32:18 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-659914 #8 -- not write anything you wouldn't feel uncomfortable explaining to your child or having your parents know. Blowjob? Really? That's important to you? Or does it just make you seem hip? I enjoyed your blog until now. #8 — not write anything you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable explaining to your child or having your parents know. Blowjob? Really? That’s important to you? Or does it just make you seem hip? I enjoyed your blog until now.

]]> By: Megan http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-656105 Megan Tue, 13 May 2008 18:01:45 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-656105 Any kind of general list is going to be full of at least a little crap. No? And supposed to be taken with a grain of salt. No? The Esquire list, for example should have been narrowed a bit and couched as "Things American middle class men between the ages of X and X might want to consider." You know, b/c I know a lot of guys who don't like baseball and men who have no time or cause to learn how to tie a bow tie. And 'give a woman an orgasm'? Sounds like it's a formula one-size-fits all type strategy. Any kind of general list is going to be full of at least a little crap. No? And supposed to be taken with a grain of salt. No?

The Esquire list, for example should have been narrowed a bit and couched as “Things American middle class men between the ages of X and X might want to consider.” You know, b/c I know a lot of guys who don’t like baseball and men who have no time or cause to learn how to tie a bow tie. And ‘give a woman an orgasm’? Sounds like it’s a formula one-size-fits all type strategy.

]]> By: LL http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-655902 LL Tue, 13 May 2008 14:07:35 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-655902 #whatever (I've lost track, I'm sorry. So sorry.) Learn to accept a compliment gracefully. "Wow, you look really nice today!" "Why thank you, how sweet." #whatever (I’ve lost track, I’m sorry. So sorry.) Learn to accept a compliment gracefully.

“Wow, you look really nice today!” “Why thank you, how sweet.”

]]> By: Lori http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-655293 Lori Tue, 13 May 2008 02:56:02 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-655293 What a thoroughly awesome list. What a thoroughly awesome list.

]]> By: catherine http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-655027 catherine Mon, 12 May 2008 21:49:39 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-655027 I've mastered all of those. I am a rock star. I’ve mastered all of those. I am a rock star.

]]> By: rachel http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/comment-page-2/#comment-654659 rachel Mon, 12 May 2008 13:17:53 +0000 http://mightygirl.com/2008/05/07/7-skills-every-woman-should-master/#comment-654659 Great list. Very clever and straight to the point. Great list. Very clever and straight to the point.

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